| WHAT ARE SOME THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT PAIN AND RECOVERY TO HELP ME COPE?
There is so much to know about how pain and the recovery process work. And knowledge is power. Since I can only highlight a few things here, if you want to go into this in greater depth, you may want to consider attending a workshop.
1. No one strategy or pill or treatment is going to be the solution to your pain or illness. So even if you are on a quest for “the” medical solution, always combine that with using a range of coping strategies. Don’t wait for that one magic pill. Don’t wait for someone else to fix you.
Managing pain or illness will always be about a bunch of strategies you put together. No one strategy is powerful enough on its own. Think of it as a jigsaw puzzle, with each puzzle piece being a strategy. If you snap enough pieces of the puzzle into place, you can see the picture.
2. The recovery process can be discouraging and often lasts longer than you expect or were made to believe. To hook into feeling more encouraged, look for ways to measure your recovery.
Don’t use pain, as it is the poorest measure of recovery. Pain often lasts beyond the point in which you have stepped back into your usual activities. Instead, look for any sign of something you can do more of or can do differently one week to the next. It doesn’t matter how small.
Can you lift one more pound? Walk two more minutes? Do you have more energy at the end of the day? Did you accept a social invitation you wouldn’t have a week earlier? Can you pull one more weed in your garden?
As long as there is even the smallest improvement, you’re heading in the right direction. Take encouragement from that. |